A Wonderful Reflective Article by Pauline Murphy!!! Please Tell Us Your Story!!

A Wonderful Reflective Article by Pauline Murphy!

Pauline Speaks: Having so much free time on my hands I find this has become a time of reflection. When I began shuffling competitively approximately 6 years ago, I never imagined the impact shuffleboard would have on my life nor the extensive part of my life shuffleboard would become. Looking back on my life I now realize how fortunate and blessed I have been over the years. My high school years gave me a passion for sports and competition. As an adult I continued playing volleyball and softball, attempted golf (I was awful) and bowled 3 times a week and my social life revolved around the sports I played and the friends and acquaintances I made along the way. At age 50 I began having health issues resulting in tendons and ligaments breaking down without related injury. I had suffered numerous broken bones from sports injuries in the past, but this was occurring spontaneously. For 4 years beginning at 50 years old my mobility was dependent on crutches, wheelchair, or braces on both legs from my toes to my knees. I was then given the diagnosis that I would end up in a wheelchair permanently at some point in time. It was then I decided I would do everything I could to prevent this from happening. My friend and surgeon who had performed 3 surgeries on my feet in 6 months recommended that I stay as active as possible for as long as possible.
When I first came to Florida as a snowbird in 2010, I began shuffling on a social level in the park where I lived. At first it was 1 day a week, then 3 days a week and casual tournaments in the park. It was at the Polk Senior Games held at Lakeland where I first learned of the existence of shuffleboard clubs. I joined Lakeland Shuffleboard Club the following season.
I played as an Amateur for 2 years, a State Amateur for 1 year and 3 years as a Pro thus far. I was fortunate to have qualified to play both the District and State Masters but more importantly I have met many shufflers who have become close friends. I’ve had the opportunity to play with some of the best shufflers including Diana Morrison and Earl Ball who became my mentors. A sincere thank you to each and every one for the lessons I learned either through victory or defeat.
Sometimes we do not know what we have until we lose it. This is how I feel about shuffleboard. Up until a few weeks ago I was practicing 3-4 hours every day with one of my regular partners. Then COVID-19 changed our lives and we were under a stay-at-home order. What we once took for granted was gone. It now seems like months since I shuffled. I miss shuffleboard and seeing these friends more than I imagined I would, and I now know how much of my social life revolved around the game which I grew to love.
I believe when this crisis passes, we will all become more appreciative of what we have in life, more tolerant of our differences, and treat others with enhanced understanding and kindness. In what we feel are the worst of times there are always many things for which we should be thankful. Family, friends, and health are amongst the most important. Let’s try not to lose sight of the larger picture and maintain faith that this too shall pass!

Pauline Murphy.  2020 04 17

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8 Responses to A Wonderful Reflective Article by Pauline Murphy!!! Please Tell Us Your Story!!

  1. Jim and Marlene Corbeil says:

    What a great read. Thank you Pauline.

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  2. Arlene Guerrini says:

    Your article Pauline is about a relatively new beginning for you, and my article is about an ending of our great sport for me. May you shuffle as long and beyond the years that I have! Even though I’ll not be playing in State Tournaments, I’ll be keeping an eye on the happenings of Shuffleboard – A great sport! Good Luck Pauline to a great shuffler!

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  3. Deb STuart says:

    Enjoyed her story!!!

    Liked by 2 people

  4. kastawaykaty says:

    Very well said Pauline … Brings home to us & many of our shuffleboard friends what this great sport means to all. . May we soon be able to resume playing when our world gets back to normal. Til then we have our fond memories of endless friends to which we can keep in touch with! Let’s count our blessings …. Katy & Lyle

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  5. Helen Biaggi says:

    The most beautiful people in life are the ones who have overcome the greatest challenges.
    Interesting article Pauline.
    Your shuffleboard career has only just begun.
    Thank you for your friendship.

    Liked by 2 people

  6. john Houghtaling says:

    Well stated Pauline especially from the perspective of all the life long friends we have all made during this shuffle board journey and in the end, when it’s all over, it’s the friends that we have made over the years that make us who we are, thankful and happy!!!!!!….

    Liked by 1 person

  7. Earl A Ball says:

    Beyond what I expected!
    So it’s just what I knew you would do!
    Earl

    Liked by 1 person

  8. Margaret Hartzler says:

    Congratulations on your success in dealing with obstacles. Margaret Hartzler, SWCD

    Liked by 1 person

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